What to do for merisik

**panic stricken family members exist. they came for the sole purpose to also make you panic**

things that I should prepare on a Merisik Event.

1. FOOD (like any other occasion)
2. LIST of the things your side is asking for in your wedding.

Merisik tend to be small and so there is no need to worry. However if you know me...My family is gigantic...'A' family was only four but I managed to call more than 20 hahahaha. so I cooked 3 chickens and mee goreng. My sis bought satay and food looks good. The others bought other things. It was a very memorable night. which ends with having to send my dad (for gout) to the hospital... hahahahaha.

we had so many people that we had to put this boy here :D

The out lay of the list

PERMINTAAN DARIPADA PIHAK PENGANTIN PEREMPUAN

Bagi

(the full name of the bride)

Pembuka mulut             :      $      100.00 dan sebentuk cincin

Tanda bertunang           :      $      100.00 dan Sebentuk cincin

Mas Kahwin                 :      $  in hundereds   (up to u)

Belanja Serbaguna        :      $ in thousands  (up to u)

Kain Jong Sarat

Daripada:

(the Bride's address)

Day, night

date in Hijrah,

date in usual calender 

This list I did not prepare early. One of my sister in law (OMSiL) was a secretary. she was being particular about the production of this list. She creates this template and so I'm sharing it with you. OMSiL is such a perfectionist that even when she wanted to fold the paper into an envelop she hesitated and we had to print the paper 3 times...eventually I fold it and put it in.